There is a certain confidence that can’t be faked. Not the loud, attention-seeking kind, and not the type that demands validation. The real thing is quieter, especially when it comes from knowing exactly who you are, what you bring to the table and understanding that not everyone automatically deserves access to your energy. That’s the space Perth pop artist Stefanie Passione explores on her latest single, ‘If you want it’.
Sensual, playful and dripping with self-assurance, the track marks another step forward for Stefanie, as she continues to refine her identity as an artist. Since debuting in 2018, Stefanie has consistently delivered polished pop releases, but If you want it feels like the sound of an artist fully embracing her strengths and stepping confidently into a new era.
Built around Latin-inspired rhythms, Spanish guitar, R&B influences and dance-pop production, the song immediately establishes its mood.. There’s an undeniable sense of movement throughout, creating the kind of soundtrack that feels equally at home on a dancefloor, during a night out with friends or blasting through the speakers while getting ready for the evening ahead.
But beneath the infectious production sits a surprisingly empowering message is a song about control. More specifically, it’s about understanding your own value and recognising that attention, affection and access to your time aren’t things that should be handed out freely. Stefanie leans into the push-and-pull dynamics of chemistry and desire, exploring the idea that sometimes the most attractive quality a person can possess is restraint.
The song understands that mystery still has power. Rather than chasing validation, Stefanie remains firmly in control of the interaction. The confidence comes not from being desired, but from deciding how much of herself she’s willing to give away. In an era where oversharing often feels unavoidable, that perspective feels refreshingly self-aware. What makes the track particularly effective is that it never becomes preachy.
